But that's not the case for Akothee, well for years before she became successful.
The mother of five can narrate to you her life story for hours straight and you'll be left wondering how she did it all on her own.
Akothee has never felt embarrassed about her past and she shares her story hoping it will inspire other people never to give up.
She has gone ahead to advice women to walk with their heads held up high because they bring children into this world and should not chase baby daddy's around.
She wrote, "When I look at myself in the mirror ! This is exactly what I see my woman, you also go around with your uterus ! If they complain ask them to feed even your pet for a week ! A woman walks with her children in her stomach /mind/body & soul! Having children is like allowing your heart go around outside your body! Chasing baby daddy is like draining a pumped baloon ! Soon it will wither ! Carry your pregnancy my dear it's yours, calling him & texting him makes him think you desperate which you already are ! Why add salt on a naked fresh wound Collect yourself and move on ! Go around also #RESPECTMOTHERS 😂😂😂."
