'Are u ready for ur life to be distributed' Tedd Josiah lists questions to ask before getting a child

Tedd Josiah promised to take us through his journey as a man mom and he is very particular.

This time he made sure before his fans get children or a child for that matter, you need to ask yourself the following,

"1. Are u ready for ur life to be distributed TOTALLY? U will have sleepless nights, u will have days that are long long long! U will have the cries of a child that can drive u up the wall.

2. Are u ready to sacrifice everything you’ve got to make ur baby’s life better? U can’t go to the club, the pub and have that party life. It’s taken me 4 years to be able to have a couple of days off without feeling guilty or feeling like she needs you by her side all the time

3. Are u willing to be patient? This is a tough one! When they scream for no reason, when they poop and u need to change them in the middle of the night, when they are learning to walk, or learn their ABCDs or learning to run u have to be patient with them and with urself, these are the moments they need u to be patient and love them most.

4. Dads MUST be more involved in their infant and toddlers lives. Being a mom ain’t easy and u can’t outsource love giving and nurturing to ur child’s nanny! U must be the primary nurturer and love giverLIVE 🦋 LOVE 💕 LAUGH 😂#RaisingJay #TheManMom"

As Swaleh Mdoe would say, tafakari ya babu...