Chito Ndhlovu is back with some much-needed words of wisdom for all ye lads who might be in a relationship with emotionally abusive lasses. But first, let us define the time emotional abuse.
Psychological abuse, often called emotional abuse, is a form of abuse, characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another person to behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder. – Wikipedia
When taken in the context of relationships, some behaviours that can be termed emotional abuse include belittling you, publicly humiliating you -you know the type.
So what do you as a man do when you find yourself with an emotionally abusive lass? That is where Chito comes in with this solid advice:
STOP CHASING AFTER EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!
This business of I love her and we shall work it out is nonsense leave that emotional Hitler alone. Emotionally unavailable women are more dangerous that a nazi with a gun in 1945. She will use you, feel nothing about t and dump you like toilet paper after use.
You too make sure you are emotionally available!
Lest we forget KENYAN MEN DON’T CHEAT!