Chito Ndhlovu is back for you lads in relationship with some really good advice. This is for anyone unsure about what is and what isn’t healthy conversation and communication in relationships.

This is for any man wondering whether what they are going through is emotional blackmail. Please check out what the elder brother had to say to y’all:


Gentlemen,
STOP DATING WOMEN WHO THINK SHOUTING AND SILENT TREATMENT IS A MODE OF COMMUNICATION!
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Leave it for kids and pets. People in mature relationships and friendship should be talking their issues through not shouting or silencing. There are many ways of resolving conflict and no one got better with those two. It seems wise as you do it but you just look dumb. Talking doesn’t mean abusing and belittling or showing how you know more. It means compassion and love.
It’s okay for people to have differing opinions and it’s okay to agree to disagree just because you don’t agree on a matter doesn’t mean you can’t continue in peace. Adults know that everyone is entitled to their opinion children throw a tantrum when no one agrees with theirs. If they don’t agree with yours doesn’t mean now it’s war fare..
Lest we forget KENYAN MEN DON’T CHEAT!