Even when everyone around you says that you made the right choice, it can still be hard to let go.
When you're still reeling from the breakup, and after you put so much into the relationship, it's easy to begin to question why you're letting it go and moving.
These are the 20 signs that you did in fact make the right choice to end things, then you can start making moves to move on!
1. You always feared that they would leave you.
2. When you think back on what the relationship was like, the bad memories come up first.
3. You had more admiration for other couples than you did yourself and your significant other.
4. They made you feel bad for the things you're interested in.
5. Jealousy was a major dynamic between the two of you.
6. You lost friends because of the relationship.
7. There was a constant struggle for superiority; the two of you were never equals.
8. You didn't feel like they supported your career
9. You felt like you had to hide an aspect of who you are to maintain their approval.
10. You didn't feel comfortable around their family, or vice versa.
11. Either of you had to vie for affection.
12. You or they were constantly worried about what the other was doing when you were apart.
13. Even small conflicts turned into tumultuous arguments.
14. Either of you were continually threatening to end the relationship.
15. There were double standards — things that one of you could do that the other couldn't.
16. The relationship more often felt draining than it did uplifting.
17. Your friends and family think the two of you are better off apart.
18. You often found yourself lashing out at your partner, sometimes without really knowing why.
19. You depended more on others for emotional support than you did your significant other.
20. You were more often worried about your future together than you were excited for it.
21. Your lives never fully (or easily) melded together.
-Pop Sugar
