Chito Ndhlovu
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First dates can either be the best day ever or the worst day. It is just a day full of gas. What we call butterflies in the tummy.

For Chito Ndhlovu it is was a sad day. Giving his story on The Morning Kiss - he stood in for Kamene- he sparked TBT memories of many listeners.

He was stood up and realized it wasn't happening two hours later.

 
 

"I was left waiting in The Sarit Center for two hours. I asked a girl out and I had to borrow some pocket money to take her out and went there. I kept calling her and she was not picking up so I decided to call her sister since I had her number. Only for me to find out she is in for surgery and I was like wow! I have just been stood up." Chito narrated

So many callers could relate to this struggle. One said that he was stood up on the first date though they ended up dating anyway. Then the day he was supposed to meet her parents, she did it again. This broke him because he never got the chance to see her ever again.

Another guy said he never had the guts to make the first move.

"We had been talking with this chic and because men have egos and hate rejection, it took me some time to ask her out on a date. She took the initiative and asked me out and we had an amazing date. We did not date to marriage but both of us are married." He narrated

See it could either go both ways so make that move and like Nviiri said, 'Kesi baadaye.'