Ladies, if you are not yet married, Lillian Muli has some words of advice for you.
Quoting the words of relationship coach Susan Nguttu, she echos that getting married to a man who is not ready will have you struggling.
"I came across this on FB and I thought it was very powerful. Dear Singles,Some people are good wedding material but are terrible marriage material. Some people are nice until they have finished with you. Some are good caring and available as long as they can use you for themselves. Some are ready for a glamourous wedding but unprepared for a blissful marriage. Some men are biologically ready to be a father but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a husband. Yet some ladies are biologically ready to be a mother but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a wife. They work harder on the wedding plans, than they do on the marriage plans.A wedding is for one day.A marriage is for a life time.Never you forget this.If you promote a lady who is not ready to be a wife then you have to struggle to make her who she is not. If you promote a man who is not ready to be a husband then you have to struggle to make him who he is not .Susan Nguttu Relationship coach" Lillian posted
Could this be a lesson out of her own experience?