Ladies, would you prefer a guy from ushago or a Nairobi born and bred guy, the you guy my guy man?
Kamene and Jalas had so many ladies asking what struggle we should pick between the two types. The struggle of a cool guy with no vision and motivation or a guy who is not romantic but has you and your future family covered?
Kamene shared a story of one of her close friends struggles when it comes to love. One very interesting thing is that most successful women are not so lucky when it comes to love.
"I have a friend who dated a guy for 4 years he was a Pokot guy born from the village. He came to Nairobi like 10 years and he has managed to make some good money. Him coming from the village meant he didn't know how to be romantic. He is just the guy for sending money for food and that was his way of communicating love.
So when the relationship was doing downhill, she got a born tao guy who confused her because he spoke the language of love she has been seeking but the problem he is so emotional and she is like is this the man I want?
It had me thinking, born tao or shagz modo?"
Jalas who can totally relate to the Pokot guy said love is something that is rarely in the minds of people who have come from shagz.
"When we come from shagz to Nairobi, love is the last thing that comes on our mind. We just want to make money and make our dreams come true and help our families back at home. We come here knowing we do not have family here so you make sure you fight for your space because this is not our home, we must make it. But for the born tao, they know there is a home for them in Nairobi even when they are 40 years old, they will leave with their parents."
"That’s why we from shagz make it because we do not have a backup plan so we strive. That is why love is the last thing we think about but it finds us. So imagine finding a girl like you I have to understand and interpret what you are saying. When I am still trying to figure that out, the Nairobi boy has already scooped you. By the time you realize, he has moved on and found a babe who loves him as he is and he has built a house in Karen yet your Nairobi guy is still home in Langata with his parents.
So ladies, if you had to sit down and think about it, what would you prefer?