Kamene and Jalas are today trying to unpack why men are out here breaking women's hearts.
Cheating is the new norm and Kamene is fed up with her friends coming to her with the same story, 'he cheated on me'.
"You know among my friends like I have always said, I am the single one." Kamene started
Jalas interrupted asking,
"What are you waiting for?"
To which she answered saying,
"The partner to pull through"
Jalas laughed and said,
"Na hii kiherehere yako? It will take time."
The radio queen ignored that statement and went on with her story.
"So anyway, this past week, two of my married friends have come crying that their men have cheated on them." She said
Jalas who has always told Kamene to be a big sister said coming to her is the first mistake her friends have made because she has no insight or experience when it comes to marriage.
"What do you mean? I was there and my husband stepped out and it happens but I am not saying it is right." Kamene answered him
Jalang'o defended the men saying there has to be a reason why one would step out of a marriage.
"You are not a counselor nor a therapist, so say what you want. There is always a journey that leads to cheating. They just never tell you and you only hear one side of the story. So before you advise, get to the real bottom of the problem. If not then just let them cry."
"Marry someone you want to be with, talk things out with, one you can share and spend time with. Marry your companion. Cheating is the lowest form of disrespect you can ever do in a marriage. But there is always a story behind it that leads to why the woman or man cheats. It is not a matter of waking up and you’re surprised that they are cheating."
Kamene who was silenced by her co-hosts statements said,
"When I first found out my husband cheated on me. My whole world fell apart. I could not believe I left a career, my country for this man. I stormed out crying.
My house girl then told me that men are men and they will always cheat, at least you are number one in the list. And I remember thinking what? This is what men want us to think and live by?"
I left and that is usually the answer I have for many of the ladies who come to me but the worst thing is there are usually children involved.