It may look easy, but Tedd Josiah is putting it out there plain and simple, that it's not.

When he got his daughter with the love of his life Regina, he never imagined it would be like this. Without Regina and him being the mother and the father to baby Jay Jay.

Taking to social media, he poured out his heart as he commemorated the death of his wife. He was honest enough to say being a mother is not easy.

"I never wanted to be a mom, itโ€™s tough, itโ€™s HARD AS NAILS!!! It bleeds you dry!! Itโ€™s emotionally exhausting and when youโ€™ve hit rock bottom is when your child ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿฝ now wants and demands more and more... itโ€™s like a fruit ๐Ÿ‡ on the tree ๐ŸŒฒ requires shade from direct sun โ˜€๏ธ light so the tree shelters the fruit no matter how hot ๐Ÿฅต the sun gets and it uses all its leaves ๐Ÿ come what may...There are nights Iโ€™ve thrown my back cause she wants to be carried to the loo ๐Ÿšฝ to pee or wants a drink of water but wants to be carried all the way there... there are times am tired ๐Ÿ˜“ just need 5 minutes between work and baby, but she welcomes you into her space hugs ur neck and u forget all the stress of work...This past week has been emotionally tough and health issues crept up.. her solution for me was kisses ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ which worked! So hereโ€™s to all the moms out there! U ROCK!!!!!! ๐Ÿฅ‚ ๐Ÿฅ‚ ๐Ÿฅ‚ ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•LIVE ๐Ÿฆ‹ LOVE ๐Ÿ’• LAUGH ๐Ÿ˜‚#RaisingJay #TheManMom" Tedd posted

Tedd Josiah then thanked those who were with him physically or through messages during this hard week as he celebrated his late wife.

"To our family, friends, friends of Reginah and family thank u for helping us celebrate ๐ŸŽŠ mama JayJayโ€™s memorial this past week. A tough moment but we celebrate her nonetheless. An angel ๐Ÿ‘ผ๐Ÿผ in the shape of her mom"

He posted the sweet words and captioned Ed Sheeran's song, Supermarket Flowers. It talks about his late mother who plays the role of an angel in his life and also describes how much of a good person she was and the blessing she will be when she gets to heaven.