Boychild, come here, Jalas has some wise words for you. Ladies, read this too.
On the Morning Kiss Kamene shared a story of how her night was. Seated in a table of successful babes, two of Kamene's male friends sat there but felt intimidated.
"So yesterday during ladies night we were at a table of about seven girls and two guys. But these guys were overwhelmed. They told me 'eeh Kamene hapa it is too much for us'. So I asked them because they are over numbered ama? But the guys said it is because the women are beautiful and of a higher standard for them. I was like what I thought this a buffet of what you want?" Kamene explained
"If you are a guy wa kujiamini na kujijua, that is the place to be if not you will be overwhelmed. You will approach any girl and ask her what she will have. But when you walk in and you meet ladies who are successful and they intimidate you, bro you are the problem."
Adding that,
"If women who are successful intimidate you, you are the problem so start thinking about your life. You should be happy you are hanging out with women who understand what life is all about. Women who have their things put together because that is a plus. "
Jalas told men that trying to bring a woman down or opting to date one who is less successful than he is, is stupid.
"It is very stupid to try to make a woman be less of herself for you or you trying to date a woman who is not as successful as you are so that you can have the power to control them. Hiyo ni ujinga Women, never think you are the problem, it is all on him. So be you and keep doing you."
Kamene was in total agreement. So many men find it hard to date successful women in the name of she is too much for him.
Sheilah Mwanyigha said the same thing when talking to Churchill. For her, the man even told her to quit what she does to be with him. All because he was intimidated.
