Ever since Bensoul finally dropped the video of the long-awaited song, Nairobi, it has become the topic of discussion.
Just how crazy is it that it is a small bedroom so you'll find that the person you're seeing is seeing someone else who is seeing someone else and you will also find that you know someone in that chain.
Chito Ndhlovu who has held it down for us in 2020 when it comes to relationship advice, has the perfect solution for you.
Speaking on his daily IGTV post, he said it is all about honesty.
"I think if we follow the Nairobi life as BenSoul speaks about in his song, then there should be honesty among everyone. Just be forthright. Say 'Hey you are not the only person I am sleeping with so kaa ukijua'.
I think honesty is the best way to deal with relationships and entanglements. If you are honest it will be easy for them to understand you and comprehend the situation at hand if they want it or not. As opposed to sneaking around.
Say it. All I want is fun, all I want is a one night stand just be clear in your communication and we will avoid this Nairobi kind of lifestyle."
Once you know your position in his or her life, I guess things should be simple. Watch his full advice below:
