Corazon Kwamboka has disclosed that back in her early 20s, she never believed in being single.
Even living without friends, she was not about that life. Basically, she was afraid of being alone. And that means she resorted to fake friends and relationships.
She also found herself dating toxic men and staying in the relationship longer than she should have because she wanted to be in a relationship.
Corazon noted that it took her maturity to realize that she needed to let go of toxic people, be by herself to discover who she is and that she is now self-sufficient.
Advising her followers, she told them to love themselves first, before they love anyone.
“Love yourself before you love anyone else, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with. In my early 20s, I never believed In being single, spending time by myself or even that I can be complete without a bunch of friends or a boyfriend. So I befriended users and fake people and dated toxic men and stayed longer than I should have just for the sake of dating, no meaning, purpose or future.
It took maturing to realize I had to let go of all the toxic people in my life, be alone for a while and discover who the true genie inside is, now I more self-sufficient. I love friends and heck having someone to cuddle and love on is a wonderful thing but it’s not everything and it shouldn’t be. Love you for real,” Corazon Kwamboka said
In this day and age, this advice is very solid. We have seen many people speak on social media saying they thought they found a family in followers but when sh*t hits the fan, they are left alone.
Listen and learn.