Lillian Muli's relationships have all been made public up until the day they decided to end things.

Her last one with Jared ended so bad she even went on social media and publicly called him a community husband. Probably why she is now telling herself she deserves nothing but the best.

Taking to social media, she wrote a letter to herself affirming that she deserves nothing but the best and she should never settle for less.


"Dear Nzisa

Never settle for an ordinary lover, never settle for less than you deserve, you are so worthy of being loved so passionately and madly. You deserve to be loved as whole with all your imperfections and flaws, you deserve someone who puts you first as if you were the only thing that matters, you deserve someone who will always choose to stay when you are on your lowest and you deserve someone who will always choose to love you even when you are not so lovable.

Love Lillian Muli"


This letter is really one everyone should have written down for themselves. There is always the pressure to love and be loved but remember, you're worth so much and you should never settle for less just because there are some societal pressures.