Willis Raburu and his ex Marya Prude lost their child at the beginning of 2020 and that crushed them both heavily.

So heavy that things did not end up working for them and so they went their separate ways. He is now a father to a son he calls a blessing with his new boo Ivy.

With that said, he has made it very clear that he is not a father of one but of two. Willis took to social media saying that he may not have carried the child, but the pain he feels is real.


"First of all let me say that I am all for freedom of expression and speech. I appreciate all the hard work that blogs and bloggers and/or writers put in to get out their stories. I may not always agree with their methods or practice but they are trying to earn and that's noble, at least to some extent.

It has however come to my attention while reading some of them, that I am constantly referred to as "FATHER OF ONE This, however, is not the case. As many of you know I lost my daughter Adana. For those who have gone through such a loss, you know that it NEVER leaves you. Society often, though not always, tends to annihilate the man, make him look devoid of feeling because "men ought not to feel" or 'you did not carry the baby' While the last one part is true. What is also true is that we feel. That I feel pain each day, that I still cry, that I still wish she were here. I honor her."

Adding that,


"Recently I got an amazing young boy. I see heaven each time I look at him. He is truly my heart. I am therefore without a shadow of a doubt a FATHER OF TWO. Not a NEW father. I would therefore like to request the blogs and all who know me to refer to me as such. Loss is painful but it can never be negated, no matter what or who thinks so. It's a humble request not a demand, should you still continue to refer to me otherwise it's ok. I know my truth.

That Willis Wayne Edwin Oplyo Otondi Raburu, is a FATHER OF TWO. God loves you and that will never change and successful people look like you- WABEBE!"

The 10 0ver 10 host has been an advocate for the men when it comes to their mental health. And clearly, this has been affecting him, he made sure he has put it out there to show everyone that men have feelings too and we should all respect that.