For self preservation purposes Obinna and Kamene encouraged their listeners not to ever lower themselves to the levels of calling the side piece you s/o is cheating on you with to threaten them or ask them to leave your partner alone.
Obinna said he does not understand the whole concept of calling the other party with threats when it's your partner you should be questioning.
"Leave my husband alone you husband snatcher... leave my girlfriend alone I'll beat you up. Why do you keep hooking up with my girl? Nitakuchapa." Such calls are embarrassing, Obinna said.
"You've made yourself sound so puny. A full grown human with all your accolades, how far you've come and you're reducing yourself to that." Kamene lamented.
The most important lesson is, if he cheats or he is cheating the problem isn't with who he's cheating with. The problem is him and vice versa boy child. Don't go fight that guy.
"You go beat that guy into a pulp.... that guy was told so and so and I are just friends... babe I promise we're just friends." Obinna seconded Kamene's sentiments on why the side piece shouldn't be your problem.
Your cheating partner should.
So hypothetically speaking, you fight off the current months later another on catches his/her eyes then what?
How many side pieces are you going to fight? How many times are you going to endure getting hurt risk getting your face clawed?
If your partner is cheating that's on them because they know they're in a relationship but choose to fumble.
And if they do it twice you better recognize that's a personality trait and they don't respect you.