She may be wife number three but Esma Platnumz says there is something she saw in her new husband Hayaha Msizwa.
The mother of two said she had to consider a man who would love her kids and vice versa.
Speaking during an interview on Wasafi TV a week after a glamourous wedding ceremony, she said she turned down many marriage offers before finally settling down.
"I saw something in him. I have turned down so many marriage offers before Msizwa came along. But I had to consider how he treated my kids. I stayed with him and realized that he loves kids. even when I introduced him to my kids they loved him."
Esma said she was so scared that her kids would not accept him but thankfully, things worked out for her.
"When we were dating I had never taken any man home because I respected my kids. I did not want to expose them to different men so I only took him when I knew I was ready. When we went out I would let them drop me outside and then go back home. I was afraid of how my kids would behave but they loved him."