Akothee is a very strong woman and this straight started from way back.

Her life experiences hardened her up because it was time for her to think about her happiness and that of her children.

Akothee explained that she was ready to leave because she has saved enough money to move to Nairobi from Mombasa and take care of her children and she’s told her followers not to copy her.

“The day I ran away from my matrimonial home with my uterus ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™‚๏ธ, just to protect my children from seeing me unhappy every single day because the love between me and papa Oyoo was gone ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ2014
I left with the kids for Nairobi and left theย #whitehouseย in Mombasa and lied to papa Oyoo that, I was dropping the boys to school! That’s the last time he set his eyes on us ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™‚๏ธ, until 2015 ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ please don’t copy me โ›”

I was already financially stable by the time I was making this decision, so I could afford the lives of my children without expectations from anyone & sticking onto anyone. He learned about our absence on facebook 4 hours after I dint come back with the girls ๐Ÿค”. Never underestimate the power of a woman, women are dangerous Angel’s ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚”Akothee said

In as much as she is for the idea of not following her footsteps, she urges women not to leave their children behind or kill their spouses if love dies. It is simpler to just walk away from that situation. That is what she calls self-respect.

“Treat them with a lot of respect ๐Ÿ’ชwe make your home homely with our flowers. I don’t understand how other women afford to run away and leave their children behind or killing their spouses to gain all the earthly wealth ๐Ÿค” when love is gone. I ESTHER AKOTH KOKEYO will leave you and leave with my uterus any time any day “SELF RESPECT”. Mimi sikwamili mwanaume hata kama ni muindi ama Chinese mwenye SGR ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚” She added

Last time, Akothee was open enough to confess that she does not enjoy being single in as much as she makes it look ‘cool’. That is why she ended this ‘TED Talk’ by telling the women whose marriages are working, to stay. She made it clear that it is not easy to find men when you have a bunch of children.

โ€˜We are just consoling ourselves but it hurts to be singleโ€™ Akothee cries

Sorry please stay in your marriages if it’s working ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ชout here is very very cold! Very few men will look at you when you, with a bunch of children in your hands with an empty pocket ๐Ÿ™†โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ you have not many options left like a single girl, you might just end up dating old fox ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ and so is life ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

I hope you have picked a lesson or two from our mum boss.

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