Avril, real name, Judith Nyambura Mwangi, decided to finally reveal the truth about her engagement to South Africa tycoon, Leslie Mugadza after speculation of their split started to hit social media.
The rumours started when Muga shared a photo with former BBA winner Dilish Matthwes on Valentines Day, a day that was special to the couple since it's was the month they marked their engagement anniversary, and of course, the day that lovers celebrate love and their relationship.
Avril would deny the allegations that Muga cheated on her, revealing that he was just doing business with the the Namibian beauty. But a few months later, after Avril lost her father, the relationship hit rock bottom, with Avril walking out of the union.
The Yule Dame hitmaker would later come to reveal that she had broken off the engagement with the wealthy businessman, citing too much pressure, misunderstanding and the fact that she was still mourning her dad.
On the other hand, Muga decided to keep mum on the issue and moved on with his life after breaking up with the stunning singer, and at some, he even took an, after losing a friend to the killer disease.
This came a few weeks after Avril had officially confirmed that it was over between her and Leslie Muga, driving people to insinuate that he was directing the results of the HIV test to his ex-fiancée, to prove that he's clean. The two also went ahead to delete each other's pics on social media after the separation.
Muga has since focused on his hustle and there's no doubt that he's doing very well. He recently shared photos of his multi-million dollar mansion in South Africa, not forgetting his expensive cars, that include a Jaguar and Range Rover.
Well, in a long post the businessman has gone ahead to give his take on why most relationships and marriages don't work nowadays, and at the same time, giving his solution for these problems;
Bumped into this and must say amazing insight love it.. love it...It's not what you're saying, but what you're thinking that has the power. The thoughts you're having about your relationship is affecting the results you're getting from your partner.The problem:
The reason why most relationships or marriages don't last, is because of the inner thoughts that we choose to entertain can either help us, or hurt us. Let's say your partner upsets you and you pretend that "you're over it" externally, but internally, you're constantly repeating to yourself what they've done to you with anger, resentment, fear, sadness, or just pure frustration. You're probably having an inner dialect saying "they'll just do it again" or "why do they keep doing this" or many of the other negative repetitive thoughts. On the outside you're playing it cool, but internally you're upset with them. This hiding of real feelings start to build up and cause other problems. This is what makes the couple drift apart, eventually ending the relationship.
The solution:
What most don't realize is how powerful those silent thoughts can be. Instead of breaking each other down, why not uplift and heal with your mind. A great awareness to have is, what you think of your partner, they become. You will see more of the traits, habits, beliefs, and actions you do, or don't like about them. It all depends on where you put your mind. Create healthy thoughts about your partner, say sweet loving words about them to yourself. Appreciate their smallest effort, give them reminders of how you feel, be more expressive to one another. Have the thoughts you had about them when you first fell in love. When you're having a negative thought about them, ask yourself, do I want to manifest this in my relationship?
Mindful love:
The whole relationship is pure thought, and each thought you send out, can be a powerful energy that can align you and your partner to create a healthier relationship. Most people who don't know this, struggle in their relationship, because they don't understand the power of their thoughts, words, and emotions. What you think internally, you see externally.
