Akothee has been in a few relationships that have blessed her with the best gifts – her children – but she has never made up her mind to settle down with any man.

Well, it’s not that she does not crave having a man or that she doesn’t have options, it’s all because she is afraid. Afraid that she will be kicked out and left with nothing. Once bitten twice shy.

Akothee would rather have her own house rather than depending on a man to give a home. This message was a dedication to the young girls who want married men.

The truth is, on most, if not all situations where a man has a side chick, he will never leave his wife for the side and so the side will be left with nothing.

Akothee narrates that in her past relationships, she has been kicked out and she only walked out with her children. That is the trauma she does not want to go through again.


I am that woman who is always hungry to stay in her home, I don’t know what homes did to me, but truthfully, I am never comfortable in anyone’s home, πŸ€”I know I sound spoilt but please don’t follow my advice, its just that I have been kicked out in peoples homes severally that I can’t call anyone’s house my house comfortably, even if I will do it! deep down I know the smile is fake πŸ™„πŸ™„ not again πŸ™ˆ whenever I was kicked out, even in a rented house, the only thing I walked away with were my childrenπŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦, so tell me how I can convince myself to convince me to be a normal wife , live under a mans roof comfortably , or is it because I have options ? πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„, please I am seriously serious, I want to settle down, but a few things are holding me back,

For the first time, Akothee was going to consider what her followers had to say. She told her fans to advice her on what to do.

I also give you advice so give me one too
today or I block all of you πŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈπŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈπŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈπŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈ

With such a threat, she got a lot of responses and here are a few:

Mom Kiny: No matter what our kids are our comforting creatures God sent to us.

Black She:Β I’d also never call a man’s house my home. I need to have homes in my name. When things get worse, everyone will go to their own place.

β€˜I got to the hotel and broke down’ Akothee narrates traumatic fan experience

Mr Selma:Β Madamboss Learn to forgive n let go…n forgive I mean yourself…u have been proving urself worth for so long since u had traumatic experience with men/husbands…you build urself an empire mamii, people screaming ur name in venues,all the material things u can buy,ur a jackpot to any man even Bill Gates (a rich man I mean)…but enough now heal ur heart,so u can be open for love….coz if there is another girl like me and I like you this much to take my time to right this..am pretty sure there’s a man for u out there totally head over heels in love with u,u just have to meet, in Gods timing.

Mary:Β Just visit him Saturday come back Sunday.

Sarah:Β Just marry the man and bring him to you home when things fall apart between you two he will walk away and you will remain in your home with everything intact πŸ˜‚

Jaynet:Β Dear Akothee we all struggle with inner battles from deep within, others caused by a traumatic experience, I just feel when it’s about our hearts desires, take it to the Lord in prayer Him above all understands Nour hearts better than we do. He only will give you peace and turn those holdbacks to major comebacks. 😊😊😊. You inspire me.

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