Vera Sidika is choosing her peace and nothing your social media in-laws will say or do will make her turn back.

She revealed that she doesn’t entertain toxic relationships.


A follower accused Vera of being the problem in all her failed relationships but this didn’t go well.

“WE KNOW YOU ARE THE PROBLEM NOW. NOT THEM YOU.” HALIMA POSTED.

Vera was angered by this post, and responded saying the reason she broke it off with either Otile or Jimmy was because it was a toxic relationship and she does not stand for that.

@HALIMALEAH I WALKED OUT OF MY RELATIONSHIP COZ I’M NOT GONNA STAY IN A TOXIC ONE JUST TO IMPRESS PEOPLE LIKE YOU. YOU CAN THINK WHATEVER YOU LIKE AT THE END OF THE DAY I’M THE ONE WHO’LL FACE THE BULLSHIT SO I WILL ELIMINATE WHAT’S NOT GOOD FOR ME. IF U LIKE SAY WHATEVER, STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET WILL NEVER LET ME TOLERATE BULLSHIT FROM A MAN JUST TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT I’M STILL IN RELATIONSHIP. HELL NAH. I WILL ALWAYS PUT MYSELF FIRST. ON GOD!!!.

But remember back in 2017, she broke up with a Nigerian man Yomi, who she had dated for close to two years, claiming he was a wife batterer.

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“YOU’RE A WOMAN BATTERER. EVEN CCTV CAMERAS OUTSIDE ELEVATORS OF OUR FLAT SAW YOU ATTACK ME TO THE EXTEND OF TEARING MY HANDBAG THEN YOU CLAIM IT IS LIES. WTF!” READ ONE OF HER EXPLOSIVE INSTAGRAM TEXTS TO YOMI.

She learned from that first mistake and she promised herself to never again. Once bitten twice shy.

Vera Sidika and Jimmy Chansa

We thought her love story with Jimmy will last forever after but sadly it had to end. We hope she finds love in another man because she says she is ready to have a child.

Read more here.