The loss has become unbearable and every day they have been penning letters to their unborn daughter Adana. They had so many plans set ahead for them and their child but God had other plans.
The loss has made them question God. Social media came out for Marya when she denounced God in her life and up to date, Willis is still trying to show support. It is a difficult time but they seem to be leaning on each other for support.
After social media condemned her, Willis took to social media with another post assuring his wife it will be okay. He also tried to show his wife and the trolls that in difficult situations it is okay to question God and so one should not feel bad about it.
"I think it is okay to question God, it is. That's why we have free will. It is okay to tell him ' am not happy with you right now. I am not feeling your vibes and I think you're unfair and unjust' if that is how you feel" Willis posted
Willis has been sending letters to his late daughter as his way of mourning the loss of the gift he had been waiting for. His last letter was very emotional. He revealed that losing Adana has been easy but on other days, it gets worse.
In as much as parents complain of lack of sleep, he wished he had such moment with his daughter
MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER, SOME DAYS ARE EASY SOME DAYS ARE SO HARD. TODAY I WOKE UP TRYING TO IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO WATCH YOU SLEEP, ( THAT’S THE ONLY IMAGE I HAVE OF YOU) WHAT IT BE LIKE YOU HOLD WARM FINGERS, WHAT A SLEEPLESS NIGHT WOULD FEEL LIKE. WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO GO TO WORK TIRED KOZ YOU KEPT ME UP AT NIGHT, WHO YOU WOULD LOOK LIKE NOW? WHAT COLOR OF YOUR SKIN? IF YOU WOULD DRINK AS MUCH MILK AS I DID WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE. MY DAUGHTER, YOU ARE AN ANGEL NOW, OR SO THEY TELL ME AND WHEN I LOOK UP TO THE SKY SOMETIMES I CRY.
We pray the two may find the strength to cope with the loss of their unborn child at their own pace.
