Akothee is a prime example of walking cognitive dissonance. He statements show a stark incongruence that shocks me because while I often assume her to be introspective, the recent advice Akothee has given women is not in line with her Miss Independent narrative.

Akothee pens beautiful empowering message for her children

Usually, Akothee is loud and belligerent (aping some of the lesser mannerisms and habits of men) in her declaration that she needs no man for anything and she even goes as far as to protect her daughter from sponsors by giving each an allowance of 20K:

Akothee reveals how she protects her daughters from sponsors


But now she is talking about how much of a turn off it is for a woman to pay a man’s bills regardless of whether he is her partner or her friend. While I agree with what she is saying, I am shook at just how much Akothee can doublespeak. She really did feel at home when she was at the Kenyan National Assembly:

Akothee causes drama after walking into parliament in a short skirt

So what did she say you ask? Madam Boss, Akothee, President of Kenya’s Single Mothers said the following:

No woman will stay in a relationship where she is the one to spend on you ! Whether you are partners or friends 🤷‍♂️ Another man will come who knows her worth and you will be forgotten ! A woman paying bills for a man is a turn off , men were to provide from day one in the bible, however small, a woman is to submit! What’s wrong with the world! Since when did women become ATM machine ? If I pay your Bill’s once, just know that’s the first and the last date my friend 🤐🙆‍♂️🤐🙆‍♂️ I better save that money I am spending on you for my children’s future. And call that account failed relationship Account🙈 so I know how much I was to spend on you & you will anyway leave me 😂😂😂😂! NO NO WE DONT SPEND ON MEN , WE WANT MEN NOT BOYS ,WE ARE NOT REHABILITATION CENTERS. And waiters and waitresses Stop bringing Bill’s on my side every time I sit with men ! Unless it’s my father or brothers! The rest must pay , either the whole bill or whatever they took , let no one ever order with my name in a bar ! Saying Akothee said I should take a bottle , No after doing 22 hours of flight to seatle ! Just to go secure Abag ! So much went into my mind when I could not sleep due to time zones @jetlag 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️