Nyashinski is by the very definition a married man within the African cultural context because the dowry ceremony was held. Nameless was Nyashinski’s best man and the pair have a tight relationship given their storied history having checked onto the entertainment at the same time and they were even signed to the same record label, Ogopa Deejays at the same time.
Speaking to us, Nameless revealed:
By the way huko, niliongea! Nilimpatia marks hapo mpaka tuu mambuyu wanasema, Okay… (nodding their heads).
Apparently, Nyashinski corroborated this narrative after the negotiations when he came back to Nameless and told him,
Wee! hapo umenipatia marks hapo.
Nameless went on to add,
You know that whole time, the Uncles are talking so nicely about her. Like ¨Nyash mumepata mtuuuuu!¨ So they were looking to see who will come and talk on behalf of Nyashinski pia atuongeze points hapo.
However, in regard to how the event´s publicity was made, Nameless aired:
You guys, I don´t know how that story was twisted to become a lavish wedding. Manze, we had even gone with creased shirts, this was not a wedding, man!
All in all, nothing makes him happier than to see his best of friend make a step forward in life.
But we are happy to see jamaa ameamua. You can imagine, hii time ako na pressure mob.
As one man who went ahead of him in marriage and one with whom they remain close allies since time immemorial, Nameless piece of advice to his pal, Nyashinski is:
I was being real with him, I told him, this thing is not going to be easy and you have to develop skills of how to live with each other because we are not taught those things. Nowadays we are lucky, now, there are books that talk about emotional intelligence to understand the differences, to understand the emotions. If you don’t, you miscommunicate so much mpaka unashindwa why this thing is not working out.
Because unfortunately for him and Wahu:
I also had to go back and see why I was struggling in some areas and I was like, because we have not developed ourselves as much. So I always tell those of us who are going into marriage to develop that intelligence. It makes marriage better and better.