Lillian Muli was for a long time trolled for calling her mn a community husband.

She might have spoken from anger because years later, she has some advice to her fellow women.

Basically learn to love yourself before they can be able to love someone else, especially after a failed love. Lillian, mother of two shared this message to encourage others as she has been down that road before.

‘I BELIEVE IN LOVE AND MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE OF SELF.

HAPPY VALENTINES TO ALL OF YOU WHO ARE STRUGGLING TO PICK YOURSELF UP AFTER LOST LOVE…DUST YOURSELF UP; YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN; 

BUT TRUST ME UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF FIRST NOBODY WILL EVER COMPLETE YOU.

Further adding,

YOU CAN SEARCH THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE FOR SOMEONE WHO IS MORE DESERVING OF YOUR LOVE AND AFFECTION THAN YOU ARE YOURSELF, AND THAT PERSON IS NOT TO BE FOUND ANYWHERE. 

YOU YOURSELF, AS MUCH AS ANYBODY IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE, DESERVE YOUR LOVE AND AFFECTION. HAPPY VALENTINES NZISA. I LOVE YOU.’

This message made one curious follower ask her where Lilian Muli’s baby daddy was.

‘WHERE IS MR OMBOGI 😳? MADAM MULI?’

To which Lilian responded.

‘IN MY HEART.’

The follower was not satisfied with the response then went ahead to suggest.

‘LET HIM COME OUT ASAP ! FOR A PHOTO WITH A SMART YOU ! HAPANA KUKWAMA MOYONI ON A VALENTINES DAY.

Lillian Muli posted a photo of herself kissing a man on the lips (above), the identity of the man was not established as she had plastered his face with an emoji.

She deleted the picture from her feed because social media in-laws were too much in her business.