This needed to be a discussion on The Morning Kiss after a man texted Kibe saying,
You guys need to talk about this because I have a problem. Now I can't even be with a woman. Even In class, I could not stop. I do it under the desk. It is a problem.
Kibe was so worried about the type of men we are raising int his generation saying this a catastrophe. He spoke as the boychild brand ambassador.
Kamene was old enough to share her experience with a certain man who has been doing this for seven years now.
I have one stalker who has been stalking me for like 7 years. I pick up because it is private number and I can hear the sound of him choking and he'll call up until he is finished.
For the KissFm listeners to understand how big this situation is, he said he had a girlfriend who shared her horrific experience when she was innocently buying shoes.
I have an ex, she was buying shoes and when she was bending to see more from the hawker she felt a kipatch of wetness. Ladies go through it so much and it is a problem.
Andrew Kibe said that he believes this is beyond being a pervert it is a mental problem.
"I am asking why are people doing it in public? It is not about being nasty it is a disease. I think it is a psychological issue because he is not mad person. He wakes up in the morning he can only think of choking." Kibe said
A caller mentioned that it is not bad manners, it a problem facing both men and women,
"I agree with kibe this is not bad manners. It is a problem for men and women. It comes with internet exposure. We are more exposed than before. There are sites that are just full of po*n. It is a problem we have."Caller number 1 said
Kibe interjected noting that
'please do not make it a demon thing.' These guys have to seek spiritual guidance. Men are doing it because they are lonely. they have katiad women and they are not getting women. You start and then it gets addictive. Some women will depress a man saying he is a one minute man and so he decides to chock and it becomes a problem.
To end the conversation, a lady called in and said she does not get satisfied by her boyfriend because she is addicted to the act.
It has happened to me. My boyfriend went to another town, I did not want to cheat. He'd send me videos of him chocking and it would arouse me and then I'd do the same. He extended his stay for another year. So I had to dump him. I am in another relationship and now I am struggling to be pleased by my man and I think it is an addiction but I can't do it in public"She confessed
All Kamene and Kibe are advocating for this morning is that we need to stop normalizing this act because it is proving to be a problem.
