Some celebrity couples have no problem airing their dirty laundry online, but this is not the case for Sam West and Vivian.
That is how we now have social media in-laws – people who are always in their business demanding for answers on their relationship. The same has made people also post opinions on various relationships which can sometimes be hurtful.
Vivian and Sam West they have kept their relationship out of social media. All we know and see is that they are a couple but there is not much of the information on their love life on social media.
According to the motivational speaker-cum-comedian Sam West, that should never be a way to solve issues.
‘SOCIAL MEDIA EXPOSE HAS BECOME A NORM.
ALWAYS SEEK FOR ADVISE AND FIX ISSUES BETWEEN THEMSELVES WITHOUT TAKING IT TO SOCIAL MEDIA.
IN MOST INSTANCES THE SOLUTIONS ARE NOT WITH THE PUBLIC BUT WITHIN THE COUPLE THEMSELVES.’
Sam added that in most instances once a couple exposes the other it is almost impossible to repair the damage done.
‘EVEN WHEN I EXPOSE YOU AS MY PARTNER AND AT SOME POINT I DECIDE TO FORGIVE YOU, IT WILL BE HARD TO CONVINCE PEOPLE THE FORGIVENESS IS GENUINE.
SUCH TENDENCIES CAN BE A CAUSE OF DEPRESSION SO PEOPLE SHOULD BE SMART ABOUT IT.’
Sam and Vivianne have been open about bringing up a blended family, given both had kids from their past relationships.
Vivian found herself a single mother while navigating the murky waters of becoming the strong woman she is today. She gave birth to Natalie Mambo in 2010 and Sam is a father to a son, Ty West.
For the years they have been married, they have managed to stay away from scandals and most Kenyans can borrow a leaf from them.
In a past interview with parents magazine, Vivianne said motherhood is a commitment.
“MOTHERHOOD IS A COMMITMENT. YOU HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS THAT CHILD.
I DO NOT RAISE TY AND NATALIE AS CHILDREN BUT AS ADULTS.
I BELIEVE THAT CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES ARE WHAT MAKES OR BREAKS AN INDIVIDUAL HENCE I AM ALWAYS CAREFUL ON WHAT I EXPOSE THEM TO,” SHE REVEALED.
The comedian revealed that fatherhood is a role he would not change for anything else.
“I ENJOY BEING WITH THE KIDS AND I LOVE THEM TO BITS.
I SPOIL THEM AND THAT IS WHY THEY LIKE HANGING OUT WITH ME,” HE SAYS PROUDLY.
We have been waiting for their wedding that they have been announcing for a pretty long time. The couple postponed it which caused a lot of drama online. Be sure Kiss100 will be in attendance to bring you all the details.