Adelle Onyango

Jalang’o has upset a lot of women after sharing what Adelle calls ludicrous remarks.

This week, Ivy Wangeci was murdered by one Naftali Kinuthia out of a love gone sour story. This story has woken up a lot of emotions considering the theory out there is that Ivy is to blame for her death because she used to accept favors from a man.


A man she knew she would not have any romantic association with.

Adelle is very vocal when it comes to the rights of women. Changing the conversation to stop women from living in fear because men are not being taught how to treat women.

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So Jalang’o decided a few days after the death of Ivy, he will speak. He posted on social media a post that his fans think he shouldn’t have.

He was telling women not to accept anything from men if they know they can’t pay back in kind.

I THINK IT’S TIME WE BECAME HONEST WITH EACH OTHER….TOO MANY YOUNG BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE DYING SOME OF THE MOST SADDEST DEATHS YOU CAN’T WISH FOR SOMEONE’S DAUGHTER! IT IS TIME WE DISSCUSSED THIS ISSUE! RULE ONE! NO MAN GIVES ANY WOMAN ANYTHING FOR FREE! YES I SAID IT ! MEN CAN WE TELL THEM THIS! EVEN YOUR DAD TAKES YOU TO SCHOOL SO THAT AT OLD AGE AND WHEN HE CAN’T PROVIDE FOR HIMSELF HE WILL DEPEND ON YOU! SO MY SISTER BEFORE YOU TAKE ANY MONEY FROM ANY MAN JUST ASK THEM WHAT THEY WANT IN RETURN AND IF YOU CAN’T OFFER WHAT THEY WANT RETURN IT! SIMPLE DO NOT PROMISE WHAT YOU CANT DELIVER!

Adding,

PEOPLE WORK SOO HARD FOR THEIR MONEY MY SISTER! DO NOT EXCHANGE LIES FOR A MAN HARD EARNED MONEY! MY SISTER …MY DAUGHTER WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LIVE BEYOND WHAT YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD BE READY TO PAY THE PRICE THAT THE OWNER OF YOUR LIFESTYLE WILL ASK! MEN ARE BORN INVESTORS AND WHEN THEY INVEST IN YOU THEY EXPECT RETURNS! IF YOU CAN’T GIVE THE RETURNS JUST LIVE THE LIFE YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD! AND NOTHING IS AS GOOD AS YOU BEING ABLE TO AFFORD THAT LIFE! 

He added that one should just appreciate what they have and not want to have more of the flashy lifestyle because that is what leads to the death of innocent women.

DO NOT BE SAD THAT YOUR AGE MATE IS IN DUBAI AND WEARING ALL THE LATEST HAIR AND CLOTHES, THEY MAY BE SAD FOR WHAT THEY HAD TO DO TO BE IN DUBAI AND SAD THAT THEY DON’T EVEN LOVE THAT PERSON THEY ARE WITH IN DUBAI! BE WARNED MY SISTER…MY DAUGHTER…MEN ALSO HAVE FEELINGS AND WHEN PROMISED THEY WANT THE PROMISE! DO NOT BE A VICTIM! DO NOT BE DEPRESSED! ONE STEP AT A TIME! BEFORE YOU TAKE ANYONE ONE MONEY AND GIFTS, BEFORE HE PAYS FOR YOUR SCHOOL FEES AND RENT…BEFORE YOU TAKE THE PLANE TO THAT TRIP..BEFORE YOU DRESS IN THAT LATEST GUCCI DRESS, BEFORE YOU CARRY THAT DAVID JONES BAG ASK HIM WHAT HE WANTS…IF YOU CAN GIVE WHAT HE WANTS GO AHEAD IF YOU CAN’T LIVE THE LIFE YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD! SEE YOU ALL THE HARDWORKING WOMEN AT THE TOP!’

This did not go down well with a section of his followers who called him out, claiming he had stooped low for a man of his calibre.

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Kiss 100 presenter Adelle Onyango is among those who disagreed with Jalang’o. Based on her past experience, she tries to help society understand that women are not exchange commodities for a man’s forceful pleasure.

The fact that you @jalangoo are asking women, to develop defense mechanisms for masculine behavior is just ludicrous!! Can you not see that? Why can it not be for once in my lifetime, that Men need to do better?? ⁣⁣⁣
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why not urge men to meet and band together, call out those with criminal behaviors, hold each other accountable?!! Instead of always advising women to band together and guide us on how to be safe? If men act better there is no need for this! ⁣⁣⁣
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We are forever accommodating your actions, your urges, your needs and trying to survive in a man’s world. If you have ever wondered why we fight so hard for gender equality, this is why, A woman gets murdered and yet it’s the Women who need to do better and do more to avoid being murdered….jalango your post will make you unpopular, because are you actually serious?

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YY the comedian also ha his two cents on this topic saying bad people are just bad.

 first let me condemn the brural act that Man did…..secondly,bad people are bad people and we can’t change them….in this case we are only in control of our own situations…so dear Women, don’t take offense when Told to be careful,please BE…If you use a good man they will just let if fly…but not every one is a good person,…there are psychos out here and they can’t be known by just looking….May She rest in peace

‘I can’t stand it!’ Adelle confesses she will never listen to Sorry by Bahati and DK

Adelleonyango This is quite ignorant and reckless. So we must adjust to tolerate murderers? Women have been murdered because of saying NO (something they have the right to say at any moment) and you say this? 37 women since January killed – FEMICIDE and you say this. It’s exhausting – constantly being told to keep safe because men have decided to be killers! Every woman will tell you how they have to adjust every day actions just so that they don’t suffer the aggression of men. There is no difference between your train of thought and those that justify rape because they bought drinks. (They too claim drinks to be an “investment”) Don’t teach us how to avoid getting killed – tell them not to kill us, attack us, rape us.

The topic seems to affect more women than men because they fall victim of such preys.

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