Lillian Muli was overwhelmed by the comments her fans shared opening up to her on the abusive and narcissistic relationships they have been in.
"Have you ever been a victim of emotional and mental abuse?" Lillian asked
She got so many responses from women opening up how they were forced to stay in the relationships in as much no one, even their parents nor close friends were aware.
One lady even revealed she almost lost her pregnancy after her man abused her at 8 months into her pregnancy during her first marriage but she is now in a better marriage.
This and more responses got Lillian Muli overwhelmed she was forced to reveal that she has been there twice but she had to end the cycle of attracting such men in her life.
"AFTER GOING THROUGH THE SAME PAIN TWICE IN MY LIFE I REALIZED I WAS ATTRACTING THE SAME CHARACTER IN MY RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE I WAS ATTRACTED TO A CERTAIN TYPE. YOU MUST PUT AN END TO ATTRACTING CERTIAIN TYPE. TAKE TIME TO HEAL AND THEN REALLY TAKE TIME BEFORE YOU OPEN TO SOMEONE ELSE." SHE WROTE.
Lillian has been in two well-known relationships in the past. The first was with ex-husband Moses Kanene. Their seven-year marriage yielded a child, Joshua. Her next much-publicized relationship was with Shabana boss Jared Nevaton.
From such experiences, she is now vulnerable to her followers and she has opened up a space to advise women against abusive relationships based on experience.
"Do not share too many details about what went wrong previously in your life in terms of abuse, unless you are 100 percent sure about the person you are opening up to. Take care of your heart and your mind. Don't take things to heart. Focus on never being anyone's victim again." Lillian shared
