Zari who has been married 3* times, and that means she is well versed at heartbreaks and failed relationships. Her first marriage to business mogul Ivan Ssemwanga was a bust with them going their own way.
And her way quickly led her to the arms and bed of Diamond Platnumz, then a rising star in the Tanzanian music scene. When that relationship died, because she pulled the plug on Valentine's Day, she has since announced her marriage to "King Bae" an amorphous individual who is camera shy and does everything in his power to hide from the media...
Anyway, Zari wrote a piece for ladies aged 18-24. And this is for the ladies who are fed up with attracting duckboys who play with their love and then bounce like a bad cheque.
These lasses who are at the height of their sexual value refuse to cash out and settle down with high-value men but when they hit the 27-year mark, they begin having "quarter-life crises" because they wake up to the realization the relationship and marriage market does not hold them in high esteem.
Zari's advice read:
DON’T DELAY MARRIAGE.Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I’m too young for that
2. Who cares about marriage
3. I’m focused on my books
4. I want to gather some money first
5. Marriage is full of problems
6. You’re too old for me. (A guy of 30)
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don’t you have any one yet?
3. Are you not planning to get married?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married?
5. Don’t you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, ir you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she’s a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say
1. My brother, I’m not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husbandt matters a lot.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she’s a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say
1. My brother, I’m not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband
