Renowned gospel singer Betty Bayo has termed her ex-husband Victor Kanyari as a stingy who does not fully pay bills for his two children he sired with her.
“We are neither enemies nor friends but we coordinate where it is possible. He is stingy man who only provide little for his children. Don’t think he is that man you wake up and ask him for everything. He help kidogo but I believe as a woman you are not supposed to depend fully on men so I provide for them.” Betty said.
Adding: “With an attitude like mine unaumia coz not all men can provide without being reminded.”
The two apparently separated three years ago after the Betty realized that her husband had been running a false ministry.
Asked if she misses her ex- husband, Betty said;
“I don’t miss Kanyari. I am so occupied with life and I even don’t follow up on what he does. I am enjoying the freedom of being single. Every marriage has issue, there are those you can stand but others you can’t my self am really enjoying the freedom of enjoying being single.”
Lessons from her former marriage
“It is every woman’s dream to have a family but I learnt that it is good to never cover up for the wrong thing just because of love. If it is not working walk out out, don’t die because of what people will say after you walk out.”
I persevered so much because of fear thinking that it would work but it didn’t seem to work and I thank God I came out alive.” Betty said.
“It has been three years since I left and when times come I will get married again to a good person because I don’t want to find my self in the similar situation. I wish there was something I would have done to save the marriage but I tried my best. All my kids are his but everyone has a right to say what they want. You can’t be affected if you know your truth.”