Nairobi has become the hub of Friends With Benefits, aka FWB's. This generation has really embraced that lifestyle.
Chito, our relationship adviser, is very much against this kind of life.
"I do not believe in Friends With Benefits. I do not think it ever works! I think if you go into something like that with someone, it is basically a relationship you have not signed up for."
But because it is happening and that cannot be changed, he has a few rules of engagement when it comes to having an FWB. Please pay attention. This will help you. No heartbreaks here because you will be the one to blame.
"Number 1. There is no cuddling, you're done, you bounce.
Number 2. Do not tell the other person how you want them to relate with you. If it is the se3, let it remain as is.
Number 3. If you realize you are catching feelings, walk away by telling them or just ghost."
Chito Ndhlovu is married and it is for that reason he will tell you to avoid that life and just find a partner to love.
"But I will not encourage that type of lifestyle. I am more of an explore a relationship with someone. It is healthier. But I am not oblivious to the fact that it is happening. This is just a guideline to help you navigate.
But if you can, avoid this. Just find the one to love. It always ends up in premium tears."
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