Mejja from the group Kansol has made a vow, never to trust women again after his wife suddenly left him.
In an earlier interview, Mejja said there was no disagreement between the two of them, she just left their home and broke up with him via SMS.
WE HAD NOT DISAGREED, ACTUALLY WE WERE SO HAPPY. I WAS IN THIKA AND I GOT HER MESSAGE ASKING ME IF I HAD ARRIVED WELL. I TOLD HER YES AND THE NEXT THING SHE TOLD ME WAS ‘MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE’
Mejja said that was the last time she set foot in their home. The artist fell into a depression.
iT TOOK ME ONE YEAR TO GET OVER IT BUT EVEN TO DATE, I AM STILL AFFECTED.
I have realised that you can’t fight depression with money. What helped me was the support system from my friends
The Jana Kuliendaje hitmaker says at some point he dialled one of the numbers advertised on roadsides for prayers. Mejja can no longer bring himself to trust women.
I have gone on dates with different women but I am no longer patient. Immediately I notice red flags, I just quit
Mejja felt he could not open up to his close friends, being a man and all. So this problem really consumed his time, energy and emotions.
AS A MAN, SHARING THAT WITH MY FRIENDS WAS THE HARDEST THING. IT CONSUMED ME FOR SO LONG BUT AT LAST, I DECIDED TO OPEN UP.
What hurts most he says,
I could not imagine the mother of my child living with another man…with my career, you have to be happy, especially when you are performing to people, so I used to fake a smile.
With all this going o, Mejja ad considered suicide as the easiest option for him to live a peace and forget the pain of the separation.
I FELT LIKE THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG, BUT THE BEST THING WAS THAT I HAD A FRIEND WHO WOULD COME TO MY HOUSE. WE WOULD CHAT AND SLOWLY ALL THE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS FADED AWAY AND I GOT BETTER
From his whole experience, the genge rapper learned the value of true friendship because as you have seen, they really helped him get through it all.
Love is a beautiful thing they say and we hope he will one day find a woman who will come to fill that gap in his life.