Kiss FM's Chito Ndhlovu has decided to dedicate a series, Things Not To Hide From Your Partner' on social media for those in relationships and marriages.
This writer spoke to Chito, and he said the reason he started this series is because so many people in relationships keep a lot of secrets from their partners.
"I have a thing on my Instagram called #AskChito where people come to me for guidance in their lives especially relationships. So, a lot of people have been asking if they can tell their partners secrets they have been keeping. So, I decided to make general videos in that regard because of the many many questions I keep getting about it."
His wish is to help those struggling in relationships because they want what they see in movies yet that is not the reality.
For the last couple of months, we have seen Chito focus on advice when it comes to relationships. The do's, the don'ts', how far you can and cannot go. Basically he is the big brother everyone wishes they could have.
So why relationships?
"I am passionate about many things and while I talk about relationships, I am passionate about people. Many young people are struggling in this area because we have watched movies and soap operas which inform how we relate. Men are taught by porn how to love and women by fairy tales. We haven’t learned the human way of doing it and so we mistreat each other without knowing we are, as we relate to each other. When we go through certain experiences very few of us share instead we hide. So, this is just me sharing what I know and believing it will help someone." Chito said